I love this picture for many reasons; the effect of the contact between the two horses is cool, and it looks dangerous. In fact, most of the comments and questions I get about this particular picture are around the idea of danger. The truth is that the filly in the picture was two years old and it was the second time she had ever had a saddle on. She was rearing and fighting to get away from that scary blue tarp on the ground and had no aggression towards me or my horse. There was no real danger. However, she felt like she was in danger and thus her reaction.
Leaders Make Choices
As a horse trainer, I had to make a choice working with this filly. Was I going to react, get mad, and “discipline” the filly for not going across the tarp and acting this way? Or was I going to act out of the horse training principles that I know to be true to help her work through the flight or fight instinct that was controlling her at that the moment? I chose the second, and within a very short time the filly was calmly walking and standing all over the blue tarp. As the crowd watched, it responded with a roaring applause (and she still remained calm on the tarp). As leaders, we have to decide if we are going to lead from a principle based platform or an emotional based platform.
Emotional Driven Leadership
Many leaders are also passionate, emotional people. The question is what drives their leadership? Emotionally driven leaders focus on themselves. They react to circumstances and situations based on how it affects them. Therefore, they are hard to predict and are very inconsistent in their actions (or lack of action). They are concerned about what others think, live in the present, don’t seek out others’ opinions, and often take credit for what others do. Whether you’re a horse, a child, a student, or an employee, following an emotionally driven leader is difficult, draining, and discouraging.
Principle Driven Leadership
Principle driven leadership is just the opposite. These leaders focus on those they are leading. They respond rather than react. You can predict how they are going to respond as they are consistent with their actions. They are concerned about living with integrity, want to empower others, focus on the future, and they give credit to others without expecting it themselves. As a follower you feel equipped, encouraged, and empowered to carry out what you have been asked to do. In John 13:13-17 we see Jesus modeling to his disciples and he says, “You call me Teacher and Lord, and rightly so, for that is what I am. Now that I, your Lord and Teacher, have washed your feet, you also should wash one another's feet. I have set you an example that you should do as I have done for you. I tell you the truth, no servant is greater than his master, nor messenger greater than the one who sent him.”
What Drives You?
So what drives you? If you have a hard time figuring it out, look at those you lead. How do they respond to you? How do they lead others? Luke 6:40 explains John 13:16 this way, “A student is not above his teacher, but everyone who is fully trained will be like his teacher.” Your followers will “tell” you what drives you. For more reading, I recommend David Cottrell’s book, Leadership Biblically Speaking – The Power of Principle Based Leadership.